Ball Color
Even if you have a favorite color or prefer a certain color ball, if another person in your party chooses a color first, don't duplicate it. Mini golf can become confusing if people are playing with similarly colored balls. Often you can't see the entire path of your ball because it may be obstructed by a windmill or other obstacle. If ball colors are duplicated, you may not know whose ball is whose when you reach the hole. Allow the order of those choosing a ball to dictate the color choices, and if playing with youngsters, allow them to choose first.
Playing Through
If you have a large party or a slower party and there is a smaller group playing behind you, it would be a polite gesture to allow them to play through. This will allow your group to take their time and enjoy the game without worrying about holding up players behind you. If the group behind yours has small children, it would be especially helpful and appreciated if you allowed them to play through, as small children can become impatient.
Slow Group
While it is a nice gesture to allow small groups or groups with children to play through, if you happen to be the small group, don't push your way through the group ahead of you. While it would be gracious of them to allow you to play through, it is not required that they do so. Display patience on your end, even if your party is becoming anxious. The game should be played leisurely, as it is for fun and enjoyment. Try to keep each other entertained in the downtime between holes or watch the group ahead of you for entertainment.
Who Golfs First
Use general rules of courtesy and etiquette to dictate who plays first, but also invoke a sense of practicality. While the "ladies first" rule could apply in the game, if you are golfing with small children, you may want to adapt. Small children can often become eager and excited to play and try their hand at golf. Allow them to hit first to keep them entertained and engaged in the game.
Comments
While some general jabs and jokes are appropriate during games of simple skill like mini golf, be sure they are in good taste and lighthearted. As many families and children utilize mini golf courses, be sure to use only family-appropriate language. Any harsh or negative comments, trash talking or put-downs should be avoided. Keep comments fun, supportive or humorous to keep the game entertaining and pleasant.