Instructions
Prepare for events before the game takes place. Crafting a story and knowing where the traps are before the players step on them can help keep players from feeling frustrated or like they are being punished.
Create an intricate back-story for your quest. Since "Dungeons &Dragons" is a role-playing game, many players want to become their character as they play. Having a meaningful reason for why the characters are participating in this quest helps create that realism for many players.
Write down the physical state of each monster in combat. As the Dungeon Master, it's your responsibility to tell the players when a monster is starting to look weak, such as when they start bleeding. Having a written reference in front of you will help keep the combat moving smoothly and realistically.
Give players added bonuses to feel like they are being rewarded and not punished. Traps and dying are part of the game, but it can be frustrating to feel like your character is being singled out. Frequently reward players for surviving and defeating tough enemies.
Purchase a Dungeon Master book. The makers and fans of "Dungeons &Dragons" have created dozens of books on the intricacies of being a Dungeon Master. These books usually have story templates that can be used to help implement realism into your games when your creativity is faltering.