Instructions
Design a font or use a pre-existing typeface for the headstone's text. A single font is more visually cohesive than multiple fonts. The simpler the font, the more easy it is to read. Common font choices include condensed Roman, modified Roman, Old English, Arial, Bernard, commercial script, Ashley script and Helvetica bold condensed. Browse sites such as Dafont to get inspiration for designing your own font.
Draw a border or suitable image. Headstone borders are generally floral, scrolling or simple, understated lines. Common images include angels, birds, bells, hands, anchors, knots, leaves and flowers. Restrict the amount of images used as they can distract from the force of the words.
Combine any imagery and text into a pleasing layout on a flat surface. The easiest way to do this is to draw or print out the separate elements and cut them up. Try different sizes of each of the elements as well as different positioning.